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Posted Sunday, August 17, 2008

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Posted Wednesday, August 13, 2008

Hello Camucha, I was your next door neighbor in Pueblo Libre, Per?. My family and I support your family 100%, My mother and sisters remember you as the sweetest girl they ever met. Your kids are always present in our prayers.

Mariana Valdivia Baraibar, Lima, Per?

Posted Friday, June 06, 2008

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Pack, Several weeks ago I was driving in the Los Angeles area and looked across my lane to see a woman driver drinking out of a beer bottle, swerving from right to left. Before I read your story I might have tried to get away from her and forget about it, but I remembered Troy and Alana and called the police on my cell phone right away. You are making a difference. Hopefully as you read all of these posts, you can see how people are on your side, and it is my firm belief that the Lord is fighting on your side. God bless you and your children in heaven.

DS, Thousand Oaks, CA

Posted Tuesday, May 27, 2008

No words can express the horror of this senseless accident.I found out about it thru a friend of yours who called my office in Los Angeles today after I told him I am from Peru.Carmen, I am a mother too and I cannot imagine your pain but you and your husband will be in my prayers from now on.Que Dios los bendiga y les de PAZ!

Edda O. Speisser, Los Angeles, California

Posted Saturday, May 10, 2008

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Stephanie McKaskle, Mehoopany, Pennsylvania

Posted Saturday, May 10, 2008

Hello Pack Family! I read your story in People magazine last October, but I just didn't know what to write. Today I decided to leave you a message to tell you how sad it is that Troy and Alana were killed, but also to say that I think you are AMAZING in what you are doing about drunk drivers. If more people would do this BEFORE someone got killed, it could save others the heartache. I am the single mom of 2 wonderful kids. My son, Noah, will be 6 on July 3 and my daughter, Caroline will be 3 1/2 on May 11 (tomorrow). Caroline was born with a severe heart defect, and at times, I didn't know if she would live, either. She has had 3 open-heart surgeries, the last one on August 1, 2007. She doesn't talk, is very near-sighted and has a lazy eye. While I wouldn't change anything about being her mom, it makes me sad that she isn't "normal". Happy Mother's Day to a mom who's been through too much from one who cares. Stephanie (heartmommyinpa@yahoo.com)

Stephanie McKaskle, Mehoopany, Pennsylvania

Posted Saturday, March 15, 2008

Hello, Thank you so much for this website. I just sent your link to my 16 year old daughter and her friend. I told them I send it in love and I know that this is why you have created this website so that other's can hopefully learn and not go through what you have. With love and God bless you, Vicki

Posted Thursday, March 13, 2008

Hi Mr. and Mrs. Pack, I am a 13 year old girl from Orinda. When I first heard about what happened to your children, a few days after the fact, I cried. Although I didn't know you Troy and Alana, I felt strangely connected to them, almost like I had known them. I suppose it was because we were so close in age, but in any case, I felt greif. Today, I know that Troy and Alana are smiling down on you from Heaven, keeping you, Noelle, and everyone who cares about them safe. I want to thank you for creating this foundation. Their legacy and their spirit will live on through the hearts of those it helps. God bless you.

Anonymous, Orinda, CA

Posted Monday, February 25, 2008

I READ YOUR STORY TODAY AND I WOULD LIKE TO SAY THANK YOU FOR SHARING. I KNOW HOW HARD IT IS FOR YOU BECAUSE, I ALSO LOST MY 4 YEAR OLD SON TO A DRUNK DRIVER. I WOULD LIKE FOR YOU TO KNOW MY SONS STORY SO IF YOU GET THE CHANGE TO LOOK HIS WEBSITE IS: WWW.TYLERLEEEVANS11201.ORG AGAIN IM VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.

MARSHA EVANS, DOROTHY, WV

Posted Thursday, February 21, 2008

Read your story in Quick and Simple mag, Feb. 26 issue. I cannot stop crying. God bless your beautiful family. Thank you for your courage and what you have done for the rest of us.

Janet Sorensen, Little Rock, AR

Posted Thursday, January 17, 2008

9-1-2006 Ron Gebhardt Father Husband Son Brother The Drunk Driver that killed him will be in prison for 2 years....we will miss Ron forever

Denise, Brentwood CA

Posted Sunday, December 30, 2007

I read your story in People Magazine today, 12/30/07, and the Eric Clapton song about the lose of his son and seeing him in heaven came on, the tears were pouring down my face. My husband and I have three boys 1,3,6. They are the love of my life and the reason I breath. I cant begin to imagine losing one of them. My heart aches for you and your family. Your courage and strength are inspiring. My family and I fight with you, people will hear your story. THANK GOD for you and your sweet little angels. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Take care.

Stephine Little

Posted Monday, December 10, 2007

My heart goes out to you for your loss. My 18 yr old son was seriously injured in a Motorcylce accident on Oct 26,2000 He passed away on November 12,2000 after being in coma. The lady involved was never tested at the scene and she had 2 children with her so know one who suspect she might of been drinking. 3 years later on Your fateful day. Oct 26 I lost my home to the California cedar fires of 2003. I read your article in the Pople magazine and it called to me. I'm the Vice President of a company called Love Raina corp. Raina was also killed by a drunk driver on July 1,1999 along with her best friend Tiffany. We have A Fragrance coming out next year. It is called. "remember the promise..." "The promise is not to drink and drive". Please go to our web site and view the video. . We are both working for the same cause. Sincerely, Judy Traynor Vice President Love Raina CORP Troy and Alana are Beautiful Children

Judy Traynor, San Diego, California

Posted Thursday, November 29, 2007

Read your story in People magazine. Can't imagine how difficult to cope. Please continue your work for the sake of saving other lives in memory of your beautiful children.

Sarah, Danbury, CT

Posted Saturday, November 24, 2007

I am very sorry to hear about this tragedy. My sincerest condolences. I just want to say that I was able to get a drunk driver off the road last July. I saw this pick-up truck swerving on the fwy coming out of Las Vegas and I called 911. I followed the drunk for over an hour while I waited for the Nevada HP to catch up. They finally did apprehend the guy. But as long as the States continue to license the sale of alchohol to drivers, I'm afraid this drunk driving situation will continue to persist. But good luck in your attempt.

Tim, Los Angeles, CA

Posted Saturday, November 17, 2007

Mr. & Mrs. Pack, you and your children have been in my prayers since reading your article earlier today. I can't imagine your pain as I have two small boys of my own, but your strength is even more powerful. We lost a dear uncle to a drunk driver in 1992 and it was the guys 3rd offense. He walked away after only serving about 5 years. It is truly sickening how the law works in this matter. Thank you for sharing your story and awareness and reminding us all how fragile life is. You are loved and prayed for by so many. God bless you all! Fondly,

Angele, Hopatcong, NJ

Posted Thursday, November 15, 2007

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Posted Tuesday, November 06, 2007

I am sorry for your loss, I can't imagine losing a child under any circumstances, I am glad you can go forth with your lives . Congratulations on the birth of your baby girl...thats wonderful... Just so you'll know I occasinally drink like 1x or even 2x a year but I will never even and never have even sat in my car or even consider driving a car....I have not lost anyone to a drunken driver and I hope I never will...please people do not drink and drive ...Belinda Garza

Belinda Garza, Tomball Texas

Posted Monday, November 05, 2007

I knew troy and he was such a cool guy and it really hit me hard when i heard about it and now he and alana are in my prayers

Kendall

Posted Sunday, November 04, 2007

I just read your article about your adorable children in PEOPLE. I'm very sorry for your loss. However Noelle will forever have two guardian Angels watching over her at all times in her life as well as yours. Peace.

Amy Petrik, Yankton, South Dakota

Posted Friday, November 02, 2007

I read the article about your family and your horrendous loss in People magazine. I can't imagine the pain and grief you have been through. I'm forwarding this website on to our local coalitions and youth for their reference. Thank you taking the time to set up this site and to share your personal story. God Bless you, Heidi in Michigan

Heidi, Grand Rapids, Michigan

Posted Wednesday, October 31, 2007

Although I have since moved away from Danville, I remember like it was yesterday the terrible tragedy of that one fateful evening. I did not know you personally at that time though our children attended the same school. It would be later through mutual friends that I would finally meet you both. There is nothing more painful that I can ever come close to imagining than a parent losing a child or in this case children. It has brought me joy in learning that you gave birth to a daughter and though nothing can erase the pain and sorrow of losing a child, the birth of a new life can renew hope- that was once shattered. God Bless you both and I will always have you, Alana, Troy and your new baby in my thoughts and prayers.

Maui, Hawaii

Posted Wednesday, October 31, 2007

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Cheryl Hathaway, Sincere condolences

Posted Monday, October 29, 2007

I just read your article in People's magazine. I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what you have been through. But I am thankful that you were strong enough in your faith to know that He can use even in the worst of circumstances. Thank you for being a wonderful example. Congratulations on your beautiful little girl, and may you have many wonderful memories with her. Thanks for all you are doing to help prevent this tragedy from happening to others.

Menomonie, WI

Posted Friday, October 26, 2007

Just to say Iam thinking of you today and saying a special prayer.

Posted Friday, October 26, 2007

We can't believe it is 4 years that our precious grandchildren, Troy and Alana were taken from us. There is not a day goes by that we don't think of them and remember all the wonderful times we had with them. We will love them always and they will forever be in our hearts. All our love TaTa and PopPop

Posted Thursday, October 25, 2007

My name is Robin Bucholz from WI. My daughter Heather Knoll was killed in 1994 at the age of 18 by a drunk driver. Her daughter was 2 at the time. My sister Patty Johnson was killed in 1969 by a drunk driver. I know the anquish you feel. Losing one child was unbearable, I can only imagine what losing two was like. What you are doing here is wonderful. I wish I had someone to help do something like this in memory of my child. I think what you are doing is amazing. I know the world and the way you knew it will never be the same. You are making a difference with what you are doing here. It is an inspiration to those who have lost children to the hands of a drunk driver. Thank You

Robin Bucholz, Black River Falls WI 5461

Posted Wednesday, October 24, 2007

Iam deeply hurt to learn about your terrible loss.My heart thoughts and prayers go out to you.I will be praying a special prayer on the 26 of this month.I know there are no words I can say that will ease your pain.Just know there is someone in N.C. that is sending up prayers for you.Thank you so much for what you are doing to help prevent this same tragidy from happening to someone else.Iam sure alot of lives will be saved thanks to you.Iam just sorry that your children had to pay the price for someone elses carelessness.God Bless you and your family.Though I never met your children,I will never forget them.

Lisa Crumpler, Rocky Mount ,N.C.

Posted Wednesday, October 24, 2007

hi sir and ms pack, i am deeply sad of this. it also happen here in our country(philippines) where rich people just pay the victims aside from justice. but if we think about it over and over again -IT IS ALL IN GOD'S WILL. God bless you ma'm, sir.

allen, phillippines

Posted Monday, October 22, 2007

I have 3 children of my own. Aged 9, 6 and 2. I cannot even begin the imagine the pain you must have felt and continue to feel. To lose a child and to BE there when you lose a child....my god. I don't know how you found the courage to go on, but after reading your article in the People Magazine...I commend you both. I have a favourite quote that I live by and it goes "HAVING A CHILD IS ACCEPTING THE FACT, THAT YOUR HEART WILL FOREVER WALK ABOUT, OUTSIDE OF YOUR BODY." When I look at my 3 children, I think of that quote. They are walking miracles, and I know that you think of your little Noelle as just that. A Miracle. God Bless you both, Troy and Alana.

Jody Deschambault, Barrie, Ontario Canada.

Posted Thursday, October 18, 2007

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Pack, As I think back to that October night, as I still do from time to time, I remember playing outside and riding bikes with my siblings. We heard sirens, which is not an everyday occurence in Danville. But it was not until the next day that I fully realized what had happened. As I walked into my fourth grade classroom, I saw my teacher, Mrs. Tringali, crying. We silently filed in and sat down in the front of the room. We sat there for about fifteen minutes before we heard the whole tragic story. Some kids cried, some claimed that their sister or brother was on their baseball or soccer team. Some kids were their freinds, or some just vaguely knew them but still had a connection. But still other kids, like me, sat there, with a blank expression and tight lips, barely breathing. I was one of those people. Though I did not know Troy and Alana well, I had seen them around school, and my sister was in CCD with Alana. I had heard many stories about them from my friend, Collin Nelson, and I am a loyal A's fan, just as was Troy. The rest of the day was a blur, lots of thinking, and writing to you in poems, stories, or just making paper hearts out of colored construction paper. But mainly I remained sitting, thinking how it was possible for death to linger upon our seeminly safe town of Danville, and claim the life of two innocent children. I went to their funeral, and for the first time, I cried. I cried as I saw the casket being carried past the pew I was sitting in. I cried when I thought of Troy and Alana, killed at such a young age. And I cried when I saw you. Of course, I do not have children of my own, so I cannot relate to the bond between parent and child. I remember following your story in the paper, from making new laws to having more children. In closing, I would like to say that I am very happy for your success in having such an adorable daughter in Noelle and hope that you continue to make the world a better place, for all of us. Thank you so much for your continued effort! Best Wishes, Andrew Reckers, Danville

Posted Thursday, October 18, 2007

Carman and Bob, I read your article in People magazine and can hardly believe the time is passed. How cute Noelle is! I wish I could be around to deliver the next one! I am so happy that your work to save other children is getting the recognition it deserves. Best to you both always!

Dr. Paula Melone, Hoffman Estates, Il

Posted Thursday, October 18, 2007

Mr and Mrs Pack, I read your article in People magazine and I was very sorry to hear what happened. It also brought back memories for myself. On July 3, 2005 in Sylmar California myself, my husband and a friend were hit head on by a drunk driver at 80 miles per hour in a 35 mile per hour road. My husband and I suffered a lot of broken bones and internal injuries. My friend, however did not make it. They had to use the Jaws of Life to get him out of the car. There were plenty of days where my husband and I were angry and wondered why our friend had to be taken from us. I wanted to say that I am in support of the enducation you are trying to bring to many people. People need to know how devastating druk driving is, and how quickly one second can change your life, because all it takes is one second. Thank you for shinning more light on this issue.

Ashley Garretson, Las Vegas, NV

Posted Wednesday, October 17, 2007

Mr & Mrs Pack, I too read your article in People magazine and at a loss as to what to say except I am so sorry for your loss and you are in my thoughts and prayers. I have 2 young children and can not even imagine what you have gone through. I think we all take our safety for granted and reading articles like yours helps put things into perspective. I commend you on your work and all your efforts and hopefully drastic changes can be made to the laws in every state! Your baby girl is beautiful and I am sure their are 2 special angels who are very happy for you and protecting you.

Jim Sorbello & Family, St. Louis, MO

Posted Tuesday, October 16, 2007

Dear Bob and Carmen Pack, I read your article in People magazine and it brought tears to my eyes knowing how much you have suffered from this terrible incident. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Gina Boyer, Camden, New Jersey

Posted Monday, October 15, 2007

Dear Mr. And Mrs. Pack, I remember Troy and Alana very much. They were both so happy and high spirited. Mrs. Pack, you once told me that Troy had a crush on me. Looking back, I can see that Troy and I had a special bond. We would always play games together and read books together in class. I will never forget that tragic Monday. I remember it was Red Ribbon Week, the one week a year that teaches you not to do drugs and alcohal. I remember feeling an emptiness in my heart. I lost a good friend. Though not only I lost someone important in my life. Troy and Alana had broughten smiles and laughter to every moment at Sycamore Valley. Though we may have all suffered a great loss that day; we all learned something special that I know I will never forget. Everyone should live each moment to the fullest. Life has many unexpected turns, though you should smile at the beggining, middle, and end of every single day. I am now a freshmen at San Ramon Valley High School, where problems such as drunk driving are present. Troy and Alana have made me realize that drinking and driving is not worth it to yourself or others. Troy and Alana have made a difference in this world. I am proud to say that I got to live each day with them; every smile; every laugh; every moment of fun.

Hilary Hilgers, Danville, CA

Posted Saturday, October 13, 2007

Dear Bob and Carman Pack, I just read your story in People magazine. God Bless to you both and to your families. To lose one child is bad enough to lose two precious angels is devastating. I'm so glad you had the strength to fight the legislature and win. Congratulations on baby Noelle and I know one day when she gets older she will love to hear about her brother and sister and how terrific they were. Once again God Bless to you both.

Janice Lenz, Waretown N.J.

Posted Saturday, October 13, 2007

Just read your article in People's; I am so so sorry for your loss. What beautiful children, Alana and Troy, and that precious little girl you have added to your family. May our Lord bless and keep you and may He make His face to shine upon you and give you peace. In Christian Love-

Iowa

Posted Friday, October 12, 2007

Dear Mr.and Mrs. PackI just read your article in people magazine and I am sorry for your loss they need stronger laws for drunken drivers even for first offense she should be locked up fovever.She should sit and think of what she has done.

Maureen, florida

Posted Friday, October 12, 2007

Hi my name is kacie harris and i read your story in people magazine. you guys are living proof that things need to change. The person who killed your children had no remorse for what she did. i commend you both and hope that one day you guys receive you justice

Kacie Harris, Middletown ct

Posted Thursday, October 11, 2007

I just read he article in People magazine. My heart goes out to you. Thank you for taking your tragedy and trying to save my 2 daughters. Your children were beautiful.

Posted Thursday, October 11, 2007

Dear Mr&Mrs Pack I like many others have read the article in People and was deeply, deeply moved , I want to say how very sorry I am for the loss of your 2 wonderful children. I am a mother of 3 daughters 6yrs old, 9 yrs old and 19 yrs old, this summer we had a bad experience with my 19 yr old who has never done anything bad in her teenage years EXCEPT, she went to the beach one night and they were drinking and she drove herself home. Over the years I have told her again , and again NEVER to drink & drive or get into a car with someone who has and to call us anytime, we will get her, No questions asked, so imagine the horror when I found out that she did the opposite, we took away her car and I made her go talk to a police officer friend of ours, who has experienced going to drunk driving accidents that involved the deaths of young adults. I truly beleive she is sorry for what she did, like in your video clip I just watched I told her that she is very lucky that she didnt kill someone or herself. I also want to say that Massachusetts needs to do more when it comes to drunk drivers!!

Posted Thursday, October 11, 2007

My heartfelt sympathy for the loss you must feel everyday. I lost my father 4 years ago, but cannot imagine how one could go on with life with a hole so immense in it. Your daughter Noelle, is a beauty. I sometimes console myself in the thinking that my father made a special trip to heaven to handpick my angel daughter to be with me in this life. Rest assured that your children meet with your new little girl each night in her dreams...may your heart feel peace....

Dawn Monk, Cole Harbour, Nova Scotia

Posted Thursday, October 11, 2007

The article in people mag. was heart felt and well written to honor your children. As I have 2 small boys I am reminded how quickly our lives can change forever. May God always be with you and bless your fight to keep these kind of people off the roads and behind bars where they belong. I hope you relize the future lives you have saved. You are in our prayers

Jessica Harrison, blue springs Mo

Posted Thursday, October 11, 2007

I am deeply disturbed by your experience with drunk driving. I was suprised to hear that she only got four years in prison. I am sorry for your loss and want you to know that you aren't the only ones fighting this battle. Godspeed

Danny, Fort Collins, Colorado

Posted Thursday, October 11, 2007

When I saw the introduction, I was deeply saddened. Drunk drivers need to be kept off the streets. Barreto's punishment wasn't fair. She should have been in prison much much longer. I grieve with and you're in my prayers.

Austin, Ft. Collins, CO

Posted Wednesday, October 10, 2007

May God bless you for sharing your lives with us and for having the courage and strength to do something so great to ensure the safety of other children. I hope you can find some peace in the good that you have done in the memory of your precious children.

SM, PA

Posted Wednesday, October 10, 2007

I no longer take for granted the smiles on my childrens faces. I am a young mother of a beautiful 9 year old daughter and 5 year old son. When I was 17, I lost my best friend in a car accident that WE were in. We were hit by a drunk driver, who after the accident was seen throwing the beer bottles in the ditch. The man was never questioned or prosecuted. Tiffany died at 16 years old. I thank God everyday for sparing me, and for my daughter not being in that car. That was all people kept asking me as I came in and out of consciousness, "where is the baby?". I could never begin to understand the pain of losing a child, but I now realize that my children are so precious to me after reading your story. I too read it in PEOPLE, and it is amazing all the responses that you have received from their readers. God Bless your family, and celebrate the lives' of Troy & Alana.

Nikki, South Carolina

Posted Wednesday, October 10, 2007

My prayers are with you and your little angles. God works in mysteroius ways. He needed more angles in heaven.

Fernandez Family, Dublin, Ca

Posted Wednesday, October 10, 2007

I just finished reading your story in the People magazine, and my heart goes out to you. I can't imagine the loss that you have experienced at the hands of such a thoughtless individual. Alana and Troy were beautiful children and this organization will keep their spirit alive forever. You have taken this complete tragedy and really have made a difference...you truly are heroes. Thank you.

Michelle, Sicklerville, NJ

Posted Wednesday, October 10, 2007

I too found your website by reading People magazine and I want to express my deepest condolences to your family. What you have gone through is something no other family should ever experience. While you cannot get your children back, I do feel the work you are doing here will bring you closer to them in heaven. You will see them again someday...you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Colleen N., Chicago, IL

Posted Tuesday, October 09, 2007

I read your story in the Heroes Among Us section of People. I was so touched by your story and I am deeply sorry for your loss. When things like this happen it is up to strong willed people like yourselves to spread awareness to the rest of the world and to make us aware of what can happen. Thank You for telling your story and for being the great people that you are.

Sara, Janesville, WI

Posted Tuesday, October 09, 2007

Dear Mr and Mrs Pack, As so many other people, i read your story in People magazine. I am so sorry for the pain you have had to endure and at the same time, I am given hope. Hope that there will be more people who are like you. That, rather than hating and feeling sorry for yourselves, you have taken your life back and made the memory of your children's precious lives have a well needed effect on Drunk Drivers in this country. I am the parent of 2 small children myself and the fact the these people are allowed to commit the crime of drinking and driving repeatedly, scares the hell out of me. I also give you so much credit for keeping your marriage together. Your bond must be incredibly strong. And of course your daughter is Gorgeous! Stay Strong and God Bless!

Chrissy, Southington, CT

Posted Tuesday, October 09, 2007

I read your article in the new Poeple and it made me cry. Your kids were absolutley beautiful and to have them taken away from you like that must have been awful! My heart goes out to you and yours!

Vicki, Phoenix, AZ

Posted Tuesday, October 09, 2007

Dear Mr. and Mrs.Pack, I read your article in the People Magizine and having 3 children my self I could never fathem th loss and great heartache you must feel everyday. I look up to you both for the efforts that you have taken and with them I know that my kids will walk safely down the sidewalk, Thank You--Devin Moore, 28

Devin Moore, Longview,Washington

Posted Tuesday, October 09, 2007

My seventeen year old daughter, Amanda, was killed by a drunk driver on April 3, 2004 at 3 in the afternoon in a residential area. The drunk driver was finally resentenced on July 9, 2007 to four years. I have to wonder how many lives have to be taken before this problem is taken more seriously. Even after my daughter's death our community still seems to ignore the impaired drivers in our city. It has been devastatiing to lose Amanda but then to see society be so accepting of the continual loss of lives is so sad. We are in the process of organizing a non-profit in Louisiana to reduce death and injury from impaired driving and for the prevention and education of underage drinking. In 2006 48% of our crashed were alcohol related which was an increase from 2005.

denise laurenson, shreveport, la

Posted Monday, October 08, 2007

Dear Mr. & Mrs. Pack, I found your web-site through People. I was inspired by your story and the strength that you have to help save other children. The laws need to be changed! I want you to know that I am praying for you.

Robb, Arkansas

Posted Saturday, October 06, 2007

I found your article through people magazine and was deeply saddened to hear of this tragic event. It absoultely breaks my heart that two innocent children had to die because some stupid woman couldn't obey the law. I feel for your family and offer my condolences and support. I pray that you are able to live the rest of your lives happy, healthy and free of tragedy and sadness

Melissa, Barrie, ONT

Posted Saturday, October 06, 2007

I just got finished reading the article in People magazine about your very sad story. I am very sorry to hear about this. I am very glad to hear though that you both have done so much to get more done about drunk drivers. Without people like you, others could get hurt or worse without much being done to the one who caused it. Enjoy your new little one (who is so very cute) and never stop fighting for the rights of your children.

EHarris, Nokomis, IL

Posted Saturday, October 06, 2007

May God continue to bless the both of you. I read your story in People and my heart just melted. I will keep the entire Pack family in my prayers daily.

April, Detroit, MI

Posted Saturday, October 06, 2007

I read your article in People magazine as well, and just could not stop crying for your babies. I am sending up a prayer for your family. May God bless you and your two angels.

Brooke, Byron, Ga

Posted Saturday, October 06, 2007

Holding you in constant prayer. Hugs, Gail

Gail DeWitt, Hermosa Beach, CA 90254

Posted Saturday, October 06, 2007

Dear Bob and Carmen: I was deeply touched and eternally saddened by the great tragedy you have had to endure. I grew up in Danville and that was what first caught my eye and as I read on I was horrified by what happened to your precious children. Alcohol and how it is abused kills everything around it, I am outragged by this tradegy. All of my prayers are with you and you both are making a positive impact on the ongoing battle with alcohol and it's ill affects. Take care. Jerilyn, San Diego, CA

Jerilyn Sanders, San Diego, CA

Posted Saturday, October 06, 2007

Bob and Carmen: I just read your article in People Magazine and wanted to send out my thoughts. I think you are exceptional parents who deserve justice to be served. I am happy you were able to have another precious baby. I hope you continue to find strength. Keep the faith.

Posted Saturday, October 06, 2007

I read your story in People magazine and was truly touched by it and am deeply sorry for your loss. It is so hard to imagine how something like this can happen and it really makes you cherish your children and truly understand what a blessing they are. I will keep you and your precious daughter in my prayers. God Bless You!

Kimberly Wattman, Philadelphia, Pa

Posted Friday, October 05, 2007

God bless you. My heart aches for your family's tragedy. I am so very sorry this happened. Troy and Alana were beautiful, talented, wonderful children. You will see them one day. Your heroic efforts to make this world a better place for us all will stand as a testament to you and your children, for it shows your love for them. I'm sure they are proud of you. Congratulations on the birth of Noelle. She's gorgeous. I admire your mission.

Shannon Sequeira, Morgan Hill, CA

Posted Friday, October 05, 2007

May God bless your family and may your two beautiful children welcome you at the gates of heaven when you arrive. You will see them again xoxo

Colleen, Las Vegas, NV

Posted Friday, October 05, 2007

IT SEEMS HARD TO UNDERSTAND WAY THING HAPPEN THE WAY THEY DO. I FOUND YOUR ARTICLE IN PEOLPLE MAGAZINE AND IT REMINDS ME TO GO HOME, AND GIVE EACH ONE OF MY 3 KIDS A HUGH. LOOK INTO THEIR EYES AND TELL THEM HOW MUCH I LOVE THEM. I REALIZE THIS COULD HAPPEN TO ANY OF US AT ANY GIVEN TIME. I ADMIRE YOU BOTH FOR THE STRENGTH THAT BOTH OF YOU HAVE. EVEN NOT MEETING YOU BOTH I FEEL THE PAIN YOU MUST EXPERIENCE. STAY STRONG AND KEEP THE FAITH. YOUR LIFE IS ONLY TIME PASSING TILL YOU GET TO BE WITH BOTH OF YOUR CHILDREN AGAIN. GOD BLESS

RTAYLOR, KY

Posted Saturday, August 11, 2007

Dear Mr and Mrs Pack, I just happened to find this web site. I am so sorry about what happened to your family. No parent should ever have to bury a child or children. It is truly heart breaking. The laws should be much harser for drunk drivers. I read an article how drunk drivers in Japan are treated extremely harsly. That's how it should be here as well.

A mom, Pasadena CA

Posted Thursday, August 02, 2007

Dear Bob & Carmen, I accidentally landed on your webpage and was very glad I did. I had heartache reading your story. I commend you for reaching out and doing so much for your community. Blessings to you and your family. Keep up the good work.

Jennifer Nguyen, Houston, Texas

Posted Wednesday, August 01, 2007

I am truly sorry to hear about the loss of your loved ones. I was touched by your website that was advertised by Lane Garrison. The most important purpose in life is to remember to put GOD first. LIV4GOD is something I began many years ago. I too have lost a loved one - my brother when he was only 13 years old. It was from a simple tonsilectomy procedure that went wrong. I will never understand why he was taken from us, but I will always remember that God has a purpose for everything. We sometimes forget who REALLY is in control. May GOD bless you both. And always remember to put GOD first.. Love, Cathy Derbonne Founder- LIV4GOD liv4god.com

Cathy Derbonne, Alexandria, Louisiana

Posted Monday, July 30, 2007

May God bless your hearts and of your litlle angels.

Elisa, Bakersfield, CA

Posted Monday, July 30, 2007

What a beautiful family. The love shows in your smiles and continues on as you fight to keep this from ever happening to another family. God Bless you and the foundation!

Sherry, Ohio

Posted Monday, July 30, 2007

I have an 11 year old daughter and 8 year old son, they are my life.I am also a recovering alcoholic and have been lucky not to kill anyone when i drove drinking,god gave me a second chance.I am in great pain thinking of your loss, it could have been me that lost my children ,it could have been me that killed yours. you are in my prayers .

susan B, fort wayne . indiana

Posted Monday, July 30, 2007

I have visited your website and i think your foundation is wonderful. I am a mother of a four year old whom i sort of used to take for granted until he was diagnosed with lukemia on Nov. 27, 2006 and now as he fights we are thankful for advanced treatments. my heart and prayers go out to the both of you. Congratulations on the birth of your other daughter! i like how she has the same middle name as Alana.

Leighann Gough, Ohio

Posted Monday, July 16, 2007

I can not even express the deepest heartache I feel for you and your family. I have three children of my own that I unfortunately take for granted sometimes. Not anymore. May God bless you and your family.Thay were beautiful children. May they rest in peace.God bless

Jane Gleeson, Dublin, Ireland

Posted Thursday, June 28, 2007

To our dearest Troycito: We want to wish you a Happy Birthday. You would have been 14 of June 26th, and we know that you would have been growing into a very fine young man. We miss you every day and you will always be in our hearts. All our love always, your TaTa and PopPop

Posted Thursday, June 28, 2007

Bob and Carmen: I am so elated for you! I used to live in Danville and followed your story closely. We have since moved to Chicago but found myself wondering what happened with your journey to have another child. I am so glad that you've been able to do so and wish you all the best!

Deanna Burke, Naperville, IL

Posted Thursday, June 21, 2007

I read about your experience through a site for another family that has also suffered the loss of their children. I am soooooooooo very sorry to hear of your loss, as well. I am awestruck and inspired of how you have so generously and selflessly worked to educate the community. Thank you for your strength. Thank you for keeping your Faith. Thanking you for being a support to other families in need.

Arlene Ferrer, Riverside, CA

Posted Tuesday, June 19, 2007

I read your message on the Cobles website and I wept for your family too. I am so saddened for your family and the tremendous loss you have gone through, not only losing your two beautiful children to a drunk driver, but also losing your twins during your pregnancy. I hope that your new baby brings you so much joy and love and eases the pain that your family has endured. God bless you and your entire family.

Vikky, Costa Mesa, CA

Posted Saturday, June 16, 2007

Im so sorry for your loss your children are beautiful THEY WILL ALWAYS BE WITH YOU THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR FIGHTING FOR THEM AGAINST THIS HORRIFIC CRIME. I HEARD OF YOUR STORY ON THE COBLES WEBSITE THEY LOSS ALL THREE OF THEIR BEAUTIES ON MAY 4TH. I PRAY FOR THEM DAILY AND NOW I WILL INCLUDE YOUR FAMILY. I ALSO SAW THAT YOU HAD A DAUGHTER CONGRATS TO YOU BOTH. I HOPE SOMEDAY THE COBLES CAN REBUILD AS YOU DID. THE LOVE YOU HAVE IN YOUR HEART NEVER GOES AWAY.

Posted Friday, June 15, 2007

Your story was mentioned on Chris and Lori Cobles site lifetomotion web site (in SO. Calif.) The cobles live in my Community which has been devestated over the loss of their 3 children - 5 weeks ago. I am so sorry to hear of your loss as well. I write to you with tears in my eyes. I am so sorry. You will be in my prayers.

S.Brown, Ladera Ranch, CA

Posted Monday, May 21, 2007

I am so sorry for your loss. Alana and troy were beautiful children. May they rest in peace.

Jane, Dublin, Ireland

Posted Monday, May 14, 2007

Mr. and Mrs. Pack, I wanted your guestbook to reflect that you took the time to reach out to Lori and Chris Coble. For those who don't know, Lori and Chris lost all three of their three beautiful children after being rear ended by a big rig on May 4, 2007. There are not many people who can begin to even fathom such pain. Thank you, Mr. and Mrs. Pack for letting Chris and Lori know what is getting you through day by day. I am sure that your words helped offer them some sort of peace, or will later down the road. You are a wonderful family...thank you.

Kelly, San Diego, CA

Posted Monday, April 02, 2007

I think you two are amazing and I think of your family often. Your strength and courage is powerful. God Bless.

Danville

Posted Tuesday, December 26, 2006

I read the recent article in the December 06 addition of Diablo magazine. I heart feels happiness for you all with the arrival of Nicole. I wish you all the best. You have been in my prayers from the beginning. Suerte con todo...de tu vecina en Jasmine. Un abrazo

Imelda, Danville

Posted Monday, December 25, 2006

alana was a very nice person and i hope the best 4 the little one

shabnam, danville

Posted Wednesday, December 13, 2006

I feel happy that a lot of people support Troy and Alana. It was devastating when the tragic incident happened. I remember riding my bike past them on my way to school everyday to Diablo Vista (now I go to Monte Vista) and watching the teddy bears and posters accumlate over many weeks.

Amanda Chen, Danville, California

Posted Thursday, August 24, 2006

I am so glad you are holding the golf tournament again this year on sept 12. I will see you there. DJ- Danville

Posted Thursday, August 17, 2006

My heart is full of best joy and peace of heaven and now I will sing and leap and praise God for he is here in my room right now with peace and love.Help that many may find him,pray for blessed revival soon.Thanks and bless.keijo sweden

keijo, sweden

Posted Sunday, August 13, 2006

I was at Sycamore Elementary School this weekend for a soccer tournament and saw the memorial of your 2 children. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I could not imagine how difficult that must have been... My thoughts and prayers are with you. Stay strong and know that your two angels are watching over you and looking out for you.

Lisa, San Jose, CA

Posted Monday, August 07, 2006

I revisited the site today and was so extremely happy to hear of Noelle's birth. She's so fortunate to have the two of you as parents and you deserve the special happiness and joy that your new little daughter brings your way. God Bless the three of you!

Carla Haller, Lomita, California

Posted Thursday, June 22, 2006

Congratulations on the birth of little Noelle. You deserve all the happiness in the world.

A neighbor, Danville, CA

Posted Tuesday, June 20, 2006

I am as happy as you are to know that a baby girl will fill your marriage again. You are good parents and you definitely deserve to have the joy and fulfillment of being a parent. My prayers are with your family always. Wishing you the very best!

Fe Weber, South San Francisco, CA

Posted Tuesday, June 20, 2006

Congratulations on the birth of your daughter. May your lives be filled with even more love and happiness.

Posted Monday, June 19, 2006

My daughter was in the 5th grade with Troy and also knew Alana. As I was "cleaning" up my computer, I ran across this. My daughter wrote it last year, she was in the sixth grade. We think of the Pack Family often, keep them in our prayers and will remember Troy and Alana the rest of our lives......I will think of them every time I see a butterfly.... Loss: by Lauren Wickham Loss â€“ 1. fact of no longer having something 2. death: the death of somebody As I flip through my fifth grade year book, I stop at that one page that everyone at Sycamore Valley Elemementary remembersâ€¦and the day thatâ€™s connected to it. Troy and Alana Pack were two students at Sycamore Valley. Troy was a fifth grader and Alana a second grader. They were friendly, nice, kind and all around good kids. I remember the day I came to school and my teacher was crying. We didnâ€™t know what was wrong, but she was just sitting there at her desk. As the late bell rang for class she read us a handout that all the teachers got. It said that Troy and Alana had died in a car accident the day before. I was in awe to hear those words but listened silently as she went on reading. I looked around the class when she was done to see many studentsâ€™ eyes glossy and some even crying. The day went by slowly. Studentsâ€™ going to counseling, one girl was still crying at her desk with her friends trying to comfort her. It didnâ€™t feel like a real school day because all we did was read silently. In the next few weeks or so, they had a memorial built for Troy and Alana. It was hard to go to. Their parents were there and all of the teachers plus the students. â€œWe brought you out here today,â€ Mr. Scott started out. â€œTo remember two students, Troy and Alana Pack. As you have heard, Troy and Alana died in a hit and run. To always remember them, we have put up this memorial with their names on it.â€ He pointed at the sitting area with two plagues on it. One said Troy Pack and the other said Alana Pack. Now one of the teachers walked up with a cage of butterflies to talk. â€œI have these butterflies here to represent Troy and Alana. Today we are going to let these butterflies out as a symbol of Troy and Alanaâ€™s free spirits.â€ I looked next to me. My friend, Haley was crying silently. The teacher talked for a few more minutes and then let the butterflies out of the cage. They fluttered out of the cage and then behind the crown down to the park. After the memorial we went over and talked with Mr. and Mrs. Pack. I hugged Mrs. Pack and she whispered to me, â€œThank you so much.â€ As I was walking back I couldnâ€™t help but start to cry. The rest of the day I had the images of Troy and Alana in my mind, and Mrs. Packâ€™s words whispered to me over and over like a broken record. So now looking back at that page full of tear stains I think of Troy and Alanaâ€™s spirits free to fly, just like the butterflies.

Barbara Wickham, Danville, CA

Posted Friday, June 02, 2006

I've thought about you often, ever since I read your achingly sad story in Diablo magazine a couple of years ago. -- I don't know that I would have had the strength to carry on as you have. I saw the beautiful pink and white balloons at the side of the road on Monday, next to the memorial that has grown up on Tassajara and was desperately hoping that it signified the arrival of a new baby. I am so very happy for you all. Enjoy your beautiful baby girl! Wishing you all the very best for a brighter, joy-filled future. You deserve it.

Madeira family, Danville, CA

Posted Thursday, June 01, 2006

Carmen and Bob, I am so happy to learn of your baby girl's birth this past weekend. All I can think of is AMEN....finally the good lord got it right this time...Best Wishes to your entire family...

dublin, ca

Posted Thursday, June 01, 2006

Congratulations on your new baby girl! May the Lord bless your family with much happiness!

Dee & Earl Burris, Danville, CA

Posted Wednesday, May 31, 2006

Congratulations on the arrival of little Noelle! You both are such courageous, inspiring people. You deserve all the happiness in the world with your new bundle of joy. She truly is an angel sent down from above. God bless you.

A neighbor, Danville, CA

Posted Wednesday, May 31, 2006

To the Pack Family: Congratulations on this joyous occasion, on the birth of your precious daughter. By your enduring spirits, you inspire hope, and so thank you.

Posted Tuesday, May 30, 2006

Congratulations on your wonderful new addition, Noelle... May God Bless you and keep you all safe...

Angela, Boulder Creek, CA

Posted Monday, May 29, 2006

I saw you and your new baby daughter on the news today. I am so happy for you. It must be such a bittersweet time. Your daughter is gorgeous - best wishes always.

Anonymous, Sunnyvale, CA

Posted Monday, May 29, 2006

I just saw on the news that you have a beautiful new baby daughter. Congratulations and my God Bless you all. I pray for much happiness and joy in the future

Ann Collins, San Mateo, CA

Posted Monday, May 29, 2006

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Pack, I wanted to congratulate you on the birth of Miss Noelle Corinne Pack. Though I have since moved from Danville to attend Cal Poly in San Luis Obispo, I continue to follow your family's story. Your strength in the most difficult of times is truly motivational. I wish you the best you watch Noelle grow into a beautiful little girl. Kevin Ratliff kratliff@calpoly.edu

Danville, CA

Posted Monday, May 29, 2006

Dear Bob and Carmen, We are so elated to hear about the arrival of Noelle. What a lucky little girl to have such wonderful people as parents. God bless The Egan Family

Posted Monday, May 29, 2006

Congratulations on the birth of your little girl.

tracy, ca

Posted Tuesday, May 09, 2006

I am glad you are holding the Golf Tournament again. I will see you there!

Posted Wednesday, February 22, 2006

I've had the opportunity to meet you both a few times, and have always been amazed by your strength and warmth. You are an inspiration to all of us who think that life has dealt us an unfair hand. God bless you both - and the miracle you'll be holding in your arms very soon.

Friend of a Friend, Dublin

Posted Friday, February 17, 2006

I don't know the Pack family but have been following their story and think of them and pray for them often. I was so excited to hear the news that they are expecting twins and pray for a healthy, happy pregnancy.

Posted Tuesday, December 06, 2005

Bob & Carmen: I have been following your story and was going to check and see if you were able to get pregnant since loosing your twin boys. I take it from the last post you have and I am so happy for you. I pray all goes well this time. You should be blessed. You are both so worthy of children. God Bless You both

M. Tidwell, McCloud, Ca

Posted Wednesday, October 26, 2005

Thinking of you today (10/26). My thoughts and prayers are with you. Congratulations on your new pregnancy.

A Danville neighbor

Posted Wednesday, October 26, 2005

Bob & Carmen, I will never forget your beautiful children. I am so overwhelmed with admiration on how you've behaved with such dignity and poise. You are truely inspirational. Your continued strong faith in God moves me. God Bless your baby.

Tassajara neighbor, Danville

Posted Friday, October 21, 2005

As our mourning ends, happiness begins. Best wishes to your new child!

Danville, CA

Posted Friday, October 21, 2005

Dear Alana, I wish you the very best in this new pregnancy, I have been involved in your story from the beginning as I am a teacher for the visually impaired in Alamo. I am so sorry for all you have gone through, but want to wish yout he best of luck in this pregnancy, a healthy and wonderful pregnancy...muchos carinos, Monica

Monica Krieger, Richmond, CA

Posted Tuesday, October 18, 2005

Dear Bob and Carmen, Congratulations on the news of your pregnancy. My thoughts and prayers are with you that all will go well. May God continue to bless and watch over you.

San Ramon

Posted Saturday, October 15, 2005

Bob and Carmen, I read about your pregnancy in the newspaper this morning and am so happy for you. My prayers are with you for a healthy pregnancy and a wonderful new addition to your lives. Best wishes to the both of you.

A neighbor, Danville, Ca

Posted Tuesday, August 16, 2005

My family lost my 13 year old niece Carley Regan in a hit and Run on Jan 6th 2003. The man that killed her had 11 previous driving offences. We miss Carley dearly but have pledged to help others just as you are. Keep up the fight and remember always you are making a difference, one step at a time.

Debbie Graw, British Columbia, Canada

Posted Monday, August 01, 2005

DEAR CARMEN AND BOB I JUST WANTED YOU TO KNOW THAT YOU GUYS ARE STILL IN MY PRAYERS. I THINK OF YOU VERY OFTEN AND HOPE THAT THINGS ARE TAKING A TURN FOR THE BETTER IN YOUR LIVES. CARMEN, I JUST WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW THAT I VIEW YOU AS A VERY STRONG A COURAGEOUS WOMAN! YOUR KIDS ARE VERY MUCH AWARE OF THE POSITIVE IMPACT THAT YOU AND BOB HAVE MADE IN AN EFFORT TO IMPOSE TOUGHER LAWS ON DUI'S. I ALSO HAPPEN TO BE A PATIENT OF DR WECKSTEIN AND I WANTED TO TELL YOU THAT THERE IS STILL A WHOLE LOT OF HOPE IN YOU ACHEIVING ANOTHER PREGNANCY AS HE HAPPENS TO BE ONE OF THE BEST DOCTORS IN THE BAY AREA. GOD BLESS YOU CARMEN AND BOB. YOU HAVE 4 ANGELS WATCHING OVER YOU.

L.Taylor, Hayward Ca

Posted Tuesday, July 05, 2005

Dear Carmen and Bob, Your loss is beyond words. My sister, Kelly, tells me that your life afterwards is also. She's told me of your strength and your desire to live your lives so as to be reunited with your children and heavenly father someday. Additionally, your efforts to help with legislation and community activities are a wonderful demonstration of your spirit and faith. My Bible study group will continue to pray for your comfort and daily strength. "...but those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint."(Isa 40:31)

Kirsten Lambert, Frankfurt, Germany

Posted Tuesday, June 28, 2005

Dear Parents of Troy and Alana. The sentencing article in the headlines just caught my attention. It was the first I'd heard about this tragic story, the loss of your precious children, which actually occurred on a day I celebrate every year, my birthday. Being single, I've never experienced the gift of my own children, but only when I volunteer to take my (divorced) friend's children on weekends. It is beyond my imagination the grief you have had to face. On the other hand, one would have to conclude, that it would be beyond my imagination to understand the joy you must have experienced for the years your children were with you. By the way, I am a Licensed Therapist and have also given grief counseling. It is imperative that you understand that experiencing joy (such as with your family)is healthy, and brings great benefits to you mentally, spiritually, emotionally and physically. However, experiencing the depth of such a loss as grief, if not handled/directed properly, can have a negative impact on you mentally, spiritually, emotionally and physically. Espcially in this instance, where another person is at fault. The grief can turn to bitterness, anger, malice, hatred, desires for revenge, etc., all of which can release damaging chemicals into several biological systems in your bodies. These dangerous chemicals keep your bodies, minds, etc. from functioning the way they typically should. Forgiveness, is not just for the other person's benefit, but it is for you as well. Personally, I do not know anyone involved, but I do understand that for no apparent reason you face what seems to be an insurmountable obstacle. You need the counsel/help of a professional, such as a clergyman, who understands the important keys to forgiveness. Without good/proper counsel, this can be hard to understand. It is a very important key to healing, and that's what I wish for you. God bless, and the best wishes for you.

Larry Corob, L.T.T., Pt. Marion

Posted Monday, June 27, 2005

Dear Bob and Carmen, I read your tragic story in the news today. I am glad that you both have recieved some justice today in the sentancing of Jemena Barreto, and hope that maybe it eased some of your pain. Being a parent myself and knowing the joy of raising a child, and the love that you have for your child, I can imagine how heartbreaking this journey has been, and am very sorry for your loss. I hope that you both will find peace in their memories, and know that one day you will see them again.

Rachel, Canada

Posted Monday, June 27, 2005

We have just learned about your tragic loss through the sentancing coverage. Our entire family is so sorry for your loss. We can't possibly understand your grief. Know we thinking of your family yesterday on Troy's birthday. We will keep you and your angels in our thoughts and prayers.

The Hanson Family, Waite Park, MN

Posted Saturday, June 25, 2005

I was saddened to hear of your loss, but rejoiced when Jimena Barreto was sentened to 30 years. I hope that you will find comfort in knowing your angels are in heaven looking down on you and one day you will be with them again. Stay strong in the Lord.

dianne, denver, colorado

Posted Friday, June 24, 2005

As always, you are in my prayers. God Bless you both.

Stacy

Posted Friday, June 24, 2005

I have a 10 year old son and 7 year old daughter and I couldn't imagine how I could deal with losing them. It's unbelievable how you can take such an overwhelming loss and work so hard to prevent the same thing from happening to me or someone else. Your children would be proud of you. I hope the best for you.

Eric, Texas

Posted Friday, June 24, 2005

You truely have two angels on your side. No matter what life brings you, you will always have the strength to face it because they will be on your side carrying you. God bless both of you, We will always keep you in our prayers.

Ben & Champa Sirimanne, Torrance, Ca

Posted Friday, June 24, 2005

I just read about the sentencing of Jimena Barreto in an article. I found this website and am saddened by what happened to your family. But you are so strong to continue to fight for your children and do so much good works with the foundation and in your community. God bless you, your children and your entire family. Your love will save many precious lives.

Thomas F. Galvin, Jr., New York, NY

Posted Friday, June 24, 2005

Dear Bob and Carmen, You don't know me, but I want to convey my heartfelt sympathy for your losses. Your children are beautiful, and must be romping joyfully in heaven. The loss of your twins is unimaginable, having gone through 3 pregnancy losses myself. We have one child, a 15-year-old boy, who was recently diagnosed with Marfan Syndrome and has heart problems. (He is the joy of my life, and I cannot bear the thought of losing him.) Stay strong, and believe that your children are happy and waiting for you in heaven. With an aching heart, Leigh Pelletier

Leigh Pelletier, Nashua, NH

Posted Friday, June 24, 2005

please dont give up on the hopes of rebuilding your family. i too lost a son and it tore my world apart and after 2 misscarriages and 1 early birth, i now have 4 healthy beautiful children. the angels sent to be with god will never leave my heart, but there is hope. i didnt know your 2 precious gifts from god, but the tears flowed as if i had known them for years. what a blessing god bestowes on us when he allows us to becomeparents. you had 2 wonderful children. please hold out the faith and keep trying, god will bless you with that gift again. god bless you always

aimee balderama, santa maria ca

Posted Friday, June 24, 2005

Dear Bob and Carmen, I just read about the trils that your family is going through, losing a child it the most difficult pain anyone can endure, but to lose both at the same time, I can't imagine. I too lost my daughter at the age of 11, on Dec. 10, 2002, the only thing that keeps me going is God's promise that we all will see our children again. Heather was my soul mate, don't get me wrong I love my youngest daughter Danielle with all that is inside of me and I thank God for her each and everyday. It is God's peace and love that I cling too. Your strength is amazing...Keep the faith always. God Bless Always "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me" Phil. 4:13

Kimberley Bonham, Fountain Valley, CA.

Posted Thursday, June 23, 2005

To Bob and Carmen, and your family: I have been wanting to send a note for the past couple weeks but words escape me. I was so sad to hear of the loss of your twin babies. I cannot begin to know what you must be feeling, but please know that you are in so many of our thoughts and prayers. I wish you health, strength and faith during this painful time in your lives.

A Danville Neighbor

Posted Wednesday, June 22, 2005

Dear Bob and Carmen I am deeply saddened to hear about your loss. I recently talked to Steve Bourg from Freei who told me about your trials. I want you to know that my wife and I are praying for you and hope that God will strengthen you through this tragic time. We will pray that God will bless your pregnacy efforts in light of your most recent loss. For whatever reasons, God stretching you in the worst ways imaginable. It is first my prayer that God will make your marriage endure this trial and second that he reveals his will for you in all of this so that it will make some sense to you. I pray that lives are changed and that people are saved from tragic consequences in their own lives from all this so that Troy and Alana's deaths have meaning. God bless you both and know that there are people who are heartbroken with you and are praying that you will find strength and confort in all of these tragic occurances. Godspeed, Mark & Theresa Grote thegrotes@comcast.net

Mark & Theresa Grote, Buckley, WA

Posted Monday, June 20, 2005

Bob and Carmen, I am so sorry about the loss of your twins. May your faith help you through this difficult time. You are in my thoughts and prayers. God bless.

A neighbor, Danville, CA

Posted Sunday, May 29, 2005

"Once more the humle will rejoice in the lord;The needy will will rejoice in the Holy One of israel."So fair glory good verse i have in my lovely bible to blessing for you and me,so expencive text can only the Holy Spirit write. pray for good revival.thanks and bless.keijo sweden

keijo, sweden

Posted Thursday, May 26, 2005

I am truly sorry about the loss of your twins. I can't imagine how painful and difficult this has been for you. You are in my thoughts and prayers. God bless you both.

Danville, CA

Posted Monday, May 23, 2005

Dear Bob and Carmen, I have just found out that you have experienced yet another loss and my heart is just breaking for you.I want to share something with you written by a famous mathmatician which has comforted me through past losses; "It is the greatest victory to be,to continue to be,and to have been.No defeat can deprive us of the success of having existed for some moment of time in a universe that seems indifferent to us." I pray that you will be blessed soon with new life.

S.Moreno, Morgan Hill,Ca

Posted Sunday, May 22, 2005

Carmen & Bob ~ I am so very sorry to hear about the loss of your twins! What more can anyone say ... I will keep you in my prayers. Best wishes for you both in the years to come! God Bless you and yours, from me and mine.

Mechele O'Neal, San Marcos, CA

Posted Sunday, May 22, 2005

Bob & Carmen: My heart goes out to you. I am so sorry for the loss of Troy & Alana and the twins. I can't even imagine what you must be going through. The innocent victims so undeserving of this horrbile crime. Wishing you only happiness and joy in the future. Again, I am so sorry!

Lisa, Alameda, CA

Posted Friday, May 20, 2005

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Pack, I am very sorry about your loss. Your children were very cind and loving. I miss them so much. love, The Blumins

Posted Thursday, May 19, 2005

I also suffered the loss of my Son, Daughter and wife to a "HIGHWAY TERRORIST" as I call them.I happened on Dec.19th,1977.I have been speaking out against these criminals ever since.I do Victim Impact panels in 4 area counties, send messages to our local state politico's to increase the penalties for the crime of D.W.I.I have been in law enforcement for 30 yrs. and a member of our local ambulance squad for 21yrs,Seen enough of this to last 2 lifetimes.Bless you both,bless all of us who fight for REAL JUSTICE.

William M. Dikant, Castleton on Hudson, N.Y1

Posted Monday, May 16, 2005

I can not even express the deepest heartache I feel for you and your family. I have three young children of my own that I unfortunately take for granted sometimes. Not anymore. You will see your precious angels again one day. May God bless you to have the strength to carry on, and enjoy your children.

Janice Pomarico, Cave creek AZ

Posted Thursday, May 12, 2005

Hi Bob and Carmen - Twin boys - that's great news! And we have a suggestion for the names: on the way to school today I mentioned to my boys that you had found out that your twins are both boys - Alex instantly chimed in with "They should name them Scott and Alex!". So you have our vote... Best of luck - and don't hesitate to call for unlimited amounts of free advice on raising twin boys...

Rick Nelson, Danville CA

Posted Wednesday, May 11, 2005

Queridos Bob y Camucha: I'm thrilled about your twins. Love bless all of you. Likewise, I congratulate you for you courage. Your persistence and love led to the outcome of the trial, making this world a bit safer for the rest of us.

Mili (Lourdes's friend), NSW, Australia

Posted Wednesday, May 11, 2005

Dearest Bob & Carmen, I am praying for you both and your twin boys for a healthy new life together. God is watching over you and he will guide you in the right direction of your new life together. I think of Troy & Alana every day of my life and cherish the time I have on this earth with my two precious children. Life is a blessing from God. You are very strong and very loved! In my prayers and thought's always!! God Bless you all Shannea Farias

Shannea Farias, Danville, CA

Posted Tuesday, May 10, 2005

Hi! May God bless Troy & Alana! They are the best!

Devin Morrissey, Danville, California

Posted Tuesday, May 10, 2005

My prayers are with you both. May Alana and Troy rest in peace. A Danville neighbor.

Stephanie Payne, Danville, CA

Posted Tuesday, May 10, 2005

I am truly sorry for what has happened I can't imagine the pain you are going through.Your children are beautiful and now they are with our GOD.May God Bless you and carry you through this hard time and that woman who does not even deserve to live will get her chance with our creator and she will get what she deserves.My heart goes out to you and all yours GOD BLESS YOU!

Guadalupe Aldama, Turlock California

Posted Tuesday, May 10, 2005

MANY MANY MANY BLESSINGS!!!

DANICE VANCE, ROCK HILL ,SOUTH CAROLINA

Posted Monday, May 09, 2005

Dear Bob and Carmen, I just read your horrifying story, and felt the need to tell you how very sorry I am. Being a Mom of 2;aswell as a nanny. I could never imagine the pain you have had to endure. The both of you are very strong.My prayers, and my heartfelt sorrow go out to the both of you.............Jamie

Posted Monday, May 09, 2005

Carmen & Bob, When my sweet daughter Katie passed away, I received this poem and it has meant so much to me. I hope you do not mind if I share it with you. Your in my heart. Patty *I'll lend you for a little time, a child of mine, he said.*For you to love while they live and mourn when they are dead.*It may be six or seven years, or twenty-two or three. *But will you , till I call them back, take care of them for me? *They'll bring thier charms to gladden you, and shall thier stay be brief. *You'll have thier lovely memories as solace for your grief. *I cannot promise they will stay, since all from earth return. *But there are lessons taught down there I want these children to learn. *I've looked the wide world over in search for teachers true. *And from the throngs that crowd life's lanes, I have selected you. *Now will you give them all your love, nor think the labor pain. *Nor hate me when I come to call, and take them back again. *I fancied that I heard them say, Dear Lord, thy will be done. *For all the joy thy child shall bring, the risk of grief we'll run. *We'll shelter them with tenderness, we'll love them while we may. *And for the happiness we've known, will ever grateful stay. *But shall the angels call for them much sooner than we planned. *We'll brave the bitter grief that that comes and try to understand.

Patty, Massachusetts

Posted Saturday, May 07, 2005

Dear Carmen and Bob, I am so sorry to hear about your angels in heaven. I too have a son who is in heaven and he will always be in my heart. This story saddens me because it shows the devastation of drug and alcohol addiction. Prescription drugs have devastating effects, yet doctors prescribe them so easily. People don't realize how addictive they can be and how dangerous it is for someone under the influence to be behind the wheel of a car. There is hope for those who are addicted. I know this because I am in recovery and have been for 2-1/2 years. Thank God I never hurt anyone when I was behind the wheel of the car. It could've been me... I am one of the lucky ones, truly, for so many do not find their way to recovery. I am blessed and Alcoholics Anonymous, along with my higher power, God, have saved my life and the lives of countless others. May God bless you and your family. May you find peace in your heart and comfort in the fact that you will see them again.

Laurie, Santa Barbara, CA

Posted Saturday, May 07, 2005

Dear Bob and Carmen, Your courage, strength and faith have been an inspiration to many and such a moving tribute to Troy and Alana. Justice has finally been served. May you now be able to focus on your family and always keep the treasured memories of Troy and Alana close to your hearts. God bless you and your family.

Danville, CA

Posted Friday, May 06, 2005

Dear Mrs. and Mr. Pack, I have found this site via a link from a news story. I have read through all the of the comments that have been entered in the Guestbook. Tears (of sadness and joy) have been coming from me throughout, for both of you and your family. I have been to Troy's and Alana's rooms so far too. I am an alcoholic, I have driven drunk many times in the past. I thank God every day that I never killed anyone - except (almost) myself in an accident. I hesitate to continue as I do not want to use your wonderful website as a forum. As an alcoholic and AA member, I know very well that alcoholics do not blithly go through life, carelessly - they are in pain. Many have experienced horrific tragedy. That is not an excuse, but an explanation. Those who are in recovery know all to well the damage they have done to this world. To condemn them would be 'preaching to the choir.' All we can do is try to convince others to find help. They need help, they are in pain. Therefore, my plea here is to those who are NOT alcoholics, to the average person who just goes out to dinner and has a few too many - "well, it was just ONE TIME." That is how my Aunt was killed (when I was a teenager) - the drunk driver who killed her was someone who was an upstanding member of the community (he really was) - he just decided to get behind the wheel after "a few." He was never prosecuted. I was never prosecuted. I don't know what else to say except that I wanted to put in my two cents. Instead of writing something about how much I 'feel your pain' (which I do not, no one can) - I will put my money where my mouth is and make a donation to your worthy foundation. God bless to you both and your family. Take care of yourself and remember to have some fun every day. With love.

T. from NH-USA

Posted Friday, May 06, 2005

Hello Bob, As a father of two I cannot even begin to imagine how I would deal with such a loss. How you and Carmen have dealt with so much and have turned this loss into constructive positive results for the memory of your kids and to help so many others, I sincerely thank you. I am grateful to have met you yesterday when we produced the live-shot in San Francisco for the Nancy Grace show on CNN. My thoughts, prayers and hopes are with you, Carmen, your future twins, and with Troy and Alana. Sincerely,

Phil, San Francisco, CA

Posted Friday, May 06, 2005

Dear Carmen and Bob Pack, I have followed your journey closely since the beginning. I live in Danville and have 4 children of my own, and pray that I will never have to feel the grief you have had to endure. I want to commend you both for turning your grief into something positive. Bob, you are right..."3 lives have been lost". No lives would have been lost if Barreto had taken her life's tragedies and challenges and used them to act in a positive manner instead of turning to self destructive behavior. I am humbled by your strength and determination. I hope you can find some peace now. God bless you and your new babies. I will continue praying for you all.

Valerie, Danville, CA

Posted Friday, May 06, 2005

I am sitting here and I just came across your story on Court Tv an dLet me say my heart goes out to you, I am a strong supporter of MADD and I hope you are able to get the legislation changed for these DUI drivers out there before they take anymore lives, I just lost a friend on April 21st in a car accident and the driver was Under the influence... I cannot imagine what you are going through.. You have my support

Denise, Newburg, Missouri